PERCEPTIONS

PERCEPTION IS ALL THAT MATTERS IN EVERYTHING WE DO IN OUR LIFE AND EVERYTHING THAT OTHERS DO.EVERY SINGLE ACTIVITY MAY HAVE SEVERAL COMPLEX AND SIMPLE PERCEPTIONS.IT DOES NOT MATTER HOW A PERSON IS WHAT MATTERS IS HIS ATTITUDE AND HOW HE TAKES IN THINGS AND DEVELOPS OR DETERMINES THE PROS AND CONS AND HIS FEELINGS FOR IT.WHICH IN SHORT CAN BE TERMED AS PERCEPTION.ITS THE PERCEPTION WHICH MAKES A SITUATION OR AN EVENT COMPLEX AND SIMPLE IN LIFE.DIFFERENT PEOPLE HAVE UNLIKE PERCEPTIONS.THIS IS THE ONLY REASON BEHIND VARIOUS SOLUTIONS OF A PROBLEM.
THE DETERMINANTS OF PERCEPTION ARE AN INDIVIDUALS CORE FACTORS :

* VALUE SYSTEM
* ETHICS OF LIFE
* SITUATIONAL IMPORTANCE

FIRSTLY,VALUE SYSTEM OF AN INDIVIDUAL IS THE PRIMARY DETERMINANT OF PERCEPTION.NO MATTER HOW WORSE OR HOW GOOD A SITUATION MAY BE,THE VALUE SYSTEM CONTROLS AN INDIVIDUALS LIFE MORE THAN HE HIMSELF.VALUE SYSTEM IS A FORCE WHICH UNCONSCIOUSLY ACTS BEHIND ALL DECISIONS AN INDIVIDUAL TAKES IN HIS LIFE.HENCE,WHENEVER A SITUATION CROPS UP,THE FIRST THING WHICH UNCONSCIOUSLY SETS THE BRAIN TO WORK IS THE VALUE SYSTEM.THE BRAIN ALWAYS COMES TO PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS,BUT,SINCE ALL DECISIONS IN LIFE CANT BE TAKEN PRACTICALLY,THE VALUE SYSTEM PINCHES IT TO START THINKING IN A WAY WHICH BALANCES ALL SOCIAL,EMOTIONAL,AS WELL AS THE PRACTICAL ASPECT.HENCE,WHEN AN INDIVIDUAL DEVELOPS PERCEPTIONS OF A SITUATION,THE VALUE SYSTEM DRIVES THE BRAIN TO COME TO A CONCLUSION.

SECONDLY,THE ETHICS OF LIFE ALSO PLAY A PARALLEL ROLE IN THE PERCEPTIVE PROCESS.IT MAY BE EXPLAINED THAT EVERY INDIVIDUAL HAS A SET OF LIFE-ETHICS.HENCE THE RESPONSIVENESS TO ANY SITUATION IS ALWAYS GUARDED BY LIFE ETHICS.SO,WHEN AN EVENT CROPS UP,THE DRIVE OF PERCEPTION IS GEARED UP BY LIFE ETHICS.THE ETHICAL LIFE OF A PERSON MATTERS IN MAKING HIS LIFE COMPLEX OR SIMPLE,AN EXTRA ETHICAL OR RIGID LIFE FAILS TO MOULD ACCORDING TO CHANGES AND TOUGH SITUATIONS,SINCE PERCEPTIONS BECOME VERY COMPLEX EVEN TO A SIMPLE SITUATION.ON THE OTHER HAND A LOW ETHICAL LIFE LEADS TO DEPENDENT PERCEPTIONS AND MAKES LIFE FULL OF COMPLEXITIES.A MODERATE ETHICAL LIFE HELPS IN BALANCING PERCEPTIONS IN ALL RESPECTS AND LEADS TO CORRECT DECISION MAKING.

THIRDLY, PERCEPTIONS OF A SITUATION ARE DETERMINED BY THE DEGREE OF RESPONSIVENESS OF AN INDIVIDUAL TO IT.RATHER IT MAY BE SAID THAT THE NATURE OF PERCEPTIONS DEPEND A LOT ON HOW MUCH AN INDIVIDUAL IS GIVING WEIGHTAGE TO THE SITUATION.IF THE DEGREE OF WEIGHTAGE IS LOW,THE PERCEPTIONS ARE NOT DEEPER,MOREOVER,IF THE DEGREE OF WEIGHTAGE IS HIGH,THE PERCEPTIONS ARE DEEPER AND MORE VICIOUS IN NATURE.HENCE THE IMPORTANCE OF A SITUATION DURING A CERTAIN PERIOD OF TIME IS WHAT COUNTS IN ITS CORRECT OR INCORRECT PERCEPTION.WHAT MAKES A SITUATION POSITIVE AS WELL AS NEGATIVE IS A PERSONS PERCEPTION.

HENCE,WE CAN CONCLUDE THAT PERCEPTION IS A GULF BETWEEN THE SITUATION AND THE DECISION.THE IMPACT OF A SITUATION ON AN INDIVIDUALS LIFE IS MEASURED BY THE NATURE OF PERCEPTION AND THE DECISION MAKING IS TOTALLY INFLUENCED AND DRIVEN BY HIS PERCEPTION OF THE SITUATION.

A HELPLESS SOUL

I SHRIEK ALOUD

TO SET ME FREE

I SHRED MY TEARS

TO SEEK HELP

I WANT TO ESCAPE

TO HELP MYSELF

I WANT TO BURST

TO LET ME LIVE IN PEACE

I TRY STOPPING MY TEARS

TO LET MYSELF BE HAPPY

I TRY TO STOP THE WRONG

TO KEEP MYSELF SPOTLESS

I TRY TO REVOLT

TO PREVENT THE BLOODY

I SHOUT ALOUD

TO LET ME GO

I KNOW I AM HELPLESS

TO HELP MYSELF

I KNOW I HAVE TO SUFFER

TO BE FREE ONE DAY

I KNOW ITS TOUGH

TO BE THE SOUL OF A BAD CHARACTER

I KNOW ITS INTOLERABLE

TO BE VIRTUALLY SPRINKLED WITH BLOOD

I KNOW HOW IT PINCHES TO THE CORE

TO BE BORN TRUE

AND NAMED AS A

"BAD -SOUL"

THE PITCH CALLED LIFE

IT STARTS FROM A SPECIAL DAY

AND DIVERGES OUT LIKE A RAY

IT ACCELERATES IN SHOWERS OF AFFECTION

AND RETARDS IN CLUTCHES OF DETESTATION

IT OFTEN HAS TO COMPROMISE

AND ABANDON PERSONAL INTEREST SITES

IT OFTEN TAKES A LEAF OUT OF ONE'S BOOK

AND ITSELF TURNS INTO A NEW BOOK

IT SOMETIMES HAS TO BE BESIDE THE MARK

AND GRADUALLY MAKE IT'S OWN MARK

IT OFTEN HAS TO MOVE HEAVEN AND EARTH

AND TIRELESSLY MAKE ITS SPACE ON THE EARTH

IT FACES ALL ODDS AND EVENS

AND TRIES BEST TO MAKE ITS PATH EVEN

IT ROCKS AND ROLLS IN TIMES OF GAY

AND IS DISTURBED WHEN WOE HAS ITS SAY

IT RUSHES TO ITS DESTINATION

AND SHINES AS BRIGHT AS THE SUN

IT IS GONE THROUGH BY ALL

AND DOES ANYONE KNOW WHAT IT IS

IT IS THE PITCH CALLED LIFE..

A SMILE

STARTING FROM THE LIPS,

ALL THE WAY THROUGH A HEART,

REACHING A SOUL,

AND BECOMING A PERMANENT PART;

MAKING ONE SPECIAL IN THE VIEW OF ANOTHER,

MULTIPLYING ITSELF BY

REACHING TO ANOTHER.

A SMILE IS NEEDED

TO CUT THROUGH

THIS WORLD,

AS IT REFLECTS THE ABSTRACTS OF

FEELING AND LOVE.

THE TEARS OF A HEART

IT FLOWED AWAY IN THE DARK
CARRYING A DEPTH OF UNFELT EMOTIONS
IT SNEAKED FROM UNCOUNTABLE EYES
DUE TO ITS INEXPRESSIVE NATURE
IT BECAME MORE IN VOLUME
WITH ALL REFRESHENED MEMORIES OF THE PAST
IT FLOWED AND FLOWED AWAY
WITH NO ONE AROUND TO UNDERSTAND
IT BECAME MUCH MORE INTENSER
WITH NO ONE AROUND TO CONSOLE
IT QUIETLY BLED AWAY WITH ITS TORN PARTS
WITH THE TRACE OF A SINGLE QUESTION -
"WHAT WAS THERE TO PRETEND WHEN YOU NEVER FELL IN LOVE WITH ME?"

A HEARTS LONGING....

ITS THE STORY OF A TRUE HEART....

I LOVED THE HEART AS MUCH AS MYSELF,
I PUMPED IT WID MY BLOOD OF TRUE FEELINGS,
I LOVED IT WID UTTER EXPECTATIONS,
I DREAMT FOR IT,
I KILLED MY EMOTIONS FOR IT,
I KILLED MY LONGINGS FOR IT,
I THOUGHT THAT IT WUD LOVE ME AS MUCH AS I LOVED IT,
I THOUGHT IT WUD CARE FOR ME MORE THAN MYSELF,
I THOUGHT IT WUD CONSIDER ME ITS LIFE ,
I THOUGHT IT WUD CRY FOR ME WHEN I LEFT,
I THOUGHT IT WUD STAND BESIDE ME WHEN I WAS ALONE.
BUT NEVER IN MY DREAMS I IMAGINED THAT A DAY WUD COME WHEN,
IT WUD BLAME ME FOR LOVING IT,
IT WUD QUESTION ME ON MY TRUE AND FAITHFUL CHARACTER,
IT WUD LEAVE ME ALONE IN THE POOL OF HEART WRENCHING EMOTIONS,
AND INSTEAD OF WIPING MY TEARS,
IT WUD SHOUT ALOUD AND TELL ME TO CRY MY HEART OUT
SINCE IT WAS MY MISTAKE TO CHOOSE THE HEART AND FALL IN LOVE WITH IT.......

WHEN YOU ARE IN TRUE LOVE

WHEN YOU ARE IN TRUE LOVE,YOU TEND TO BE LOSING YOURSELF..EVRY MOMENT,EVRY SECOND..U FEEL THINGS ARE GOIN OUT OF YOUR CONTROL N UR HEART SIMPLY BEATS MAKIN YOU FEEL CONCIOUS AND POSSESSIVE ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP.EVEN IF YOU DNT WANA GET INTO IT,YOU WILL BE SLOGGED IN BY YOUR HEART.EVEN IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS HARMING YOUR PERSONAL N FAMILY LIF,U TEND TO SMEHOW MANAGE THINGS N STILL CARRY ON THE RELATIONSHIP.EVERY MOMENT OF YOUR LIF SEEMS TO BE SHARED WITH YOUR PARTNER N YOU LONG FOR HIS PRESENCE AT EVRY STEP YOU TAKE... YOU IMAGINE HIM SITTING BESIDE YOU WHEN YOU ARE LONELY N SAD BUT STILL NOT SHARE YOUR PROBLEM WITH HIM JUST FOR THE REASON THAT IT WUD MAKE HIM TENSED ND WORRIED.YOUR LOVE,EVN IF IT HARMS YOU,YOU STILL GO ON DRIVEN INTO IT DEEPER N DEEPER DAY BY DAY..THE MORE YOU LONG TO RESIST,THE MORE YOU GET INTO THE COCOON OF IT AND GET PRISONED WITH STRONG,IRRESISTABLE EMOTIONS..TIME POURS N YOU DNT REALISE HW SUBMERGED YOU ARE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP....YOU TRY TO AVOID EVERY PROBABILITY WHICH WOUD POSE THREAT TO UR RELATIONSHIP,BE IT YOUR FRIENDS,YOUR CLOSE ONES,YOUR FAMILY....N ALL OTHER ELEMENTS.IF YOU ARE TRULY ENGROSSED IN LOVE,THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS TO YOU IS YOUR LOVE LIFE..U TEND TO BECOME SELFISH IN LOVE....TRUE LOVE IS A FORCE WHICH WOULD PULL YOU INTO ITSELF....PURPOSELY DROWN YOU INTO AN UNESCAPABLE POOL OF DEEP,STRONG AND EVERLASTING EMOTIONS....
TRUE LOVE IS NOT TO BE UNDERSTOOD OR PROOVED.....IT JUST NEEDS TO BE FELT...ONCE YOU FEEL IT,THE SHIP OF YOUR LIFE IS SET SAIL BY A SOOTHING,CALM DRIFT OF PASSIONATE AND WARM FEELING NAMED LOVE....